Nudism, It's About Freedom and Accepting Yourself
This is me sitting at the computer watching a fractal I made render (slowly) and listening to Tool on my headphones. Life is just better when you are nude. There is a freedom and a comfort to it that you just can't get any other way. I have been a nudist my entire life. My Father, Brother and I often where nude at night watching TV when I was a child. My mother was raised Catholic and was very hard on herself body image wise, so she was never nude with us.
I find it interesting that I have never met a fellow nudist, who was truly a nudist, and not just wanting others to see them naked, who had a hang-up on their body image, or that of others. It is liberating to say the least, to never think twice about what some judgmental foolish minded person thinks of how you look.
There is a lot of people online, who tend to say "I'm a nudist", when they really mean, look at my penis it seems. I have run into a bunch of people who think that way. Your not a nudist pall, your an exhibitionist. Of you show photos of only your junk, changes are, that's what is important to you, showing your junk, not the lifestyle of nudism.
You have no idea how many times I followed someone and then months later they post a photo of their erection or a sex act (on Twitter). I tend to unfollow them when this happens. Also there is a shit load of bots that have 4 or 5 photos of "beautiful" women, and all made recently, who follow me. Two or three a day to be exact. They must be looking for the word nudist on my profile. They tend to be either scammers or porn spam. I just go ahead and block them instantly after seeing they followed me, I don't want their crap in my DM's.
But anyways, even being a nudist, I had body image problems in my teen years and into my twenties. This went away in my late twenties, when I started to go to nude venues and hung out with other nudists. The fact they did not care at all what I looked like gave me a sense of confidence. Later it gave me the strength to change the way I looked at myself completely. For many years, I have been totally free of what others think of me. That is all on them, not on me. They will think what they want, and it has literally nothing to do with how I actually am as a person.
Enjoy the freedom of nudism, and try to change the way you see yourself. Your size, you skin color, what your genitals look like, you age, and so on, have nothing to do with you being worthy of self acceptance and love for yourself. You are worthy of seeing yourself as a good and complete person who deserves respect. If others don't give you that respect, it's their problem, not something you did, or how you look. You here born human and are worthy of love.
The only time I look down on people, is when they hurt others, or try to force others to act in ways they see as "proper". This is not freedom, and I find it interesting how often these people scream freedom when they really don't know what that word means. Taking away peoples rights and freedoms, is not defending freedom, but these evil minded people seem to think it is.
I have friends who totally have different political and "moral" ideas than me. I don't judge them on this, it's their life, not mine. They give me the same respect, this is why we are friends.
Keep free, and don't tread on others. Live your life and love yourself and all around you. Be strong. You are valid, you are loved, and you deserve respect. Peace and Love be with you.
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